Saturday, December 26, 2009

35 Years


Taken at our wedding reception December 21, 1974, on a nice December 80-degree day  (Craig looks so young I appear to be marrying Steven . . .)

December 19 was our 35th wedding anniversary!   Wow, that sounds like a lot of years.  I remember when my parents celebrated their 25th and how old they seemed to me at the time.  They made it to their 40th before my Mom died and here we are, only a few years away from that.  We celebrated by going for an early dinner at the Reedville Cafe.  It's a local place, one-of-a-kind that serves delicious meals far superior to the factory-food-popular chains that proliferate our area.  We splurged by ordering an appetizer of their delicious homemade onion rings.  I don't remember ever ordering an appetizer before at a restaurant.  It's never worth the expense and most restaurant meals are enough food for me anyhow.   But it was our anniversary . . .

December 19th seems like an odd day to get married.  It is close enough to Christmas that most people would avoid it.  As I recall we had a challenge scheduling our marriage.  Because we are Mormons who were being married in the temple, we didn't have the choice of a totally open calendar.  In previous decades temples were not open over Christmas and New Years except for one day between the two holidays.  We were BYU students living in Provo and that week before Christmas was finals week, which ended Friday December 20, so getting married before that was not convenient.   The last day that temples were open was Saturday the 21st.  We wanted to have our reception in Southern California that day but the drive from Provo was going to be close to 12 hours so we couldn't get married and get to our reception all on the same day.  We didn't want to use that one day in between the holidays because we wanted to have our quasi-honeymoon over before Christmas so we could head back to Provo on the 26th.  So  . . . .  we decided to get married at 7 PM on the 19th in the Provo Temple, then drive to California on the 20th, have the reception the 21st, go on a 2-3 day honeymoon, come back Christmas Eve, leave for Provo the 26th.  It worked out OK because I moved my finals to be done on the 18th; Craig had 2 on the 19th--he took the first one, then when he showed up to the second one the teacher excused him because he had earned an A no matter how he did on the final.  So he went home and took a nap.

Now that we passed that milestone, we have 5 years till the next significant one.  My dream celebration would be to camp at Cape Kiwanda for a week, if I will still be able to get into a sleeping bag on a pad on the ground in a tent under the stars in my old age!

1 comment:

  1. That is very strange to think that your mom only made it 5 more years from where you are. Is that right? You seem a lot younger than she did. Did you have any family there when you got married?

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