Showing posts with label Social. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Social. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 1, 2023

What Is Poverty?



A few years ago I visited a National Historic Site in Ohio, the home of assassinated U.S. president, James A. Garfield. The place is interesting and beautiful. Over 10,000 square feet of house includes the very first presidential library, which was created by Garfield's wife. She had the foresight to collect all materials relating to him and to his presidency, because a man who had been president for only six months before his untimely death could be easily lost to history.

What I'm actually getting at is something that bothers me when looking into the past. It's the twisted perspective as to what constitutes poverty now and in the past. Today I'll talk about the past.

I descend from a long line of extremely poor people. To me, poverty means struggling to put a roof over one's head and food on the table. It means a dearth of money to pay for the niceties of life--music lessons, vacations, books and magazines, higher education. Poverty comes with a fear of the future, kind of like experiencing an earthquake. Will it fade away and become nothing of consequence, or will it grow in strength and duration, such that it will damage our lives forever?

In Garfield's home a few times the tour guide referred to the fact that they were poor, they didn't have much money, etc. Of course she was referring to earlier years of their lives, but still.  (Side note: this tour guide was good; she knew her stuff, and she didn't balk that I turned a 45-minute tour into a 75-minute tour due to my complicated questions). Anyhow, the Garfields bought this farm about 1875, six years before James A.'s death, which had an older house on it at the time. Gradually they enlarged it to accommodate their family. It grew to over 9000 square feet. I expressed my astonishment at the size of it and the guide reminded me that they had 9 people living there. Given that we housed a family of seven in a 2200 square foot house (which in itself is relatively luxurious to those in other countries), I couldn't imagine having the Garfield's space, 1000 square feet per person.

My Irish ancestors lived in thatched cottages about the size of my kitchen, with at times over a baker's dozen of people, and a pig or two being raised indoors (meant for the rent required by the money-grubbing landlords). Had they the Garfield house, they could have moved their entire village inside and still felt lost in the space. My Carpatho-Rusyn ancestors also lived in tiny cottages that usually had the barn and tool storage attached to one end of the house. It was common for some family members to sleep in the barn area given the abundance of bodies crowded into the cottage. So that is my frame of reference to the past.

I once did some family history research for a woman who showed me photos of her family and places they had lived. She commented on one place, "This is where my family summered." Summered! This was the first time I ever heard "summer" used as a verb. My ancestors "summered" in whichever  end of their one-room cottage or tenement felt cooler. That is, when they weren't out scratching the soil for potatoes they might have missed from last fall's harvest, those being the difference between starvation and survival.

an old Irish cottage




Cottage found in eastern Slovakia, currently part of a museum exhibit. Back in the day the roof would have been thatched.








Thursday, November 30, 2017

Shower Power


Avery's paternal great-grandparents: I love this fabulous, charismatic picture!

In mid-November I hosted a baby shower for my friend's daughter A, a girl I have known since she was four years old. This is her first baby, so pretty special. At her request, I wrote a presentation with an accompanying slide show (with help from her mom) about her family background. Sound kinda weird? She loved the one her mom and I created for the bridal shower of her sister-in-law, so.

I got to work on gathering info on A's parent's family lines, collecting photos of and listening to stories about them. Tons of research was already done so I familiarized myself with it, and decided which people to focus on. The theme ended up loosely being "I can do hard things."

On the maternal line are a large number of Mormon pioneers, possibly the world champions in doing hard things. 19th century Mormons were chased out of several states by murderous mobs, and finally emigrated out of the United States to the almost uninhabited Rocky Mountains in 1847. Less than a year later the Treaty of Guadalupe Hidalgo ended the Mexican War, and the Mormons found themselves right back in US territory.

Brigham Young, their decisive, domineering leader, executed a plan to colonize much of the western American continent. Mormon individuals and families were assigned to move to forested areas of the Pacific Northwest and Canada, to prime agricultural areas in Utah and Idaho, and to bleak and desolate spans of Nevada, Arizona, Mexico and California. The Haws family (below) moved to Arizona.

George Haws had over 20 children by three wives. The family's days were spent eking out survival by coaxing crops out of poor soil, digging irrigation ditches, milking, preserving food, protecting themselves from Apaches, saving their crops and adobes from driving rain and swollen rivers, and battling dirt, day in and day out. Just getting to Arizona was a feat in itself, traveling through narrow sandstone canyons and down steep banks to cross swift rivers.

One of A's Burrell ancestors who was sent to settle in Mexico was bayoneted by rebels during the Mexican Revolution. An English ancestor sneaked away from her abusive husband with their five children, and fled via ship to the US. Still another became a Mormon in the 1830s in eastern Canada, and began years of migration westward, marking her trail with the graves of family members.

Other of A's maternal ancestors lived and worked in mining towns in Colorado and Arizona. One of the daughters who was born in the early 1900s in Colorado, was given a doll, possibly her only toy in that bleak, harsh settlement. The family still has the doll, and so this presentation was given as if spoken by that doll. That was a creative way to present the info and to easily throw in amusing comments and observations.

On A's paternal line, some of the ancestors were patrician types born into bounteous luxury. That's not their fault, haha, but it makes them a little less interesting than those who lived a hard-scrabble life. But I did find myself loving them in another way. Just because someone has an easy life doesn't mean they have an easy life, if that makes sense. They battled demons not of poverty or those that imperil survival, but demons of demands, the Depression, and depression. I truly feel sympathy for their brand of hard things.

It was a treat to find out more about my friend's background. We are in part, products of those gone before us.


Thursday, November 1, 2012

Where Do YOU Fit In? [part 1]

Yikes, is it November again already? I look forward to reading other folks' blogs yet writing my own every day will be a test. 



Could you survive in poverty? In middle-class? In wealth? I recently came into possession of a three-page paper that asks this multi-part question. It’s a yes/no quiz actually, and by answering the statements you will be able to tell where you fit in the social strata. One purpose of the “quiz”is to help you understand what it is like to be in an unfamiliar “class.” A related purpose is to bring out any empathy you can muster for those living in poverty. 

Read the statements and 'grade' yourself. Tomorrow I'll post an interesting chart that interprets these categories for you.

A sampling of the questions.

Poverty:
I know which churches and sections of town have the best rummage sales
I know which grocery stores’ garbage bins can be accessed for thrown-away food
I know how to get someone out of jail
I know how to get a gun, even if I have a police record
I know how to live without electricity and a phone
I know how to move in half a day
I can get by without a car
I know how to fight and defend myself physically
I know how to get and use food stamps and other benefits
I know where the free medical clinics are
I am good at trading and bartering

Middle Class:
I know how to get my children into Little League, piano, soccer, etc.
I know which stores carry the clothing brands my family prefers
My children know the best name brand in clothing
I know how to get a library card
I repair items in my house when they break, or know how to call a repair service
I know how to get a good interest rate on a new-car loan
I understand the difference among the principal, interest, and escrow statements on my house payment
I talk to my children about going to college
I know how to order in a nice restaurant
I know how to help my children with their homework and don’t hesitate to call the school for additional info

Wealth:
I have several favorite restaurants in different countries of the world
I know how to hire a decorator to do my house during the holidays
I know the hidden rules of the Junior League
I support or buy the work of a particular artist
I have at least two residences that are staffed and maintained
I know how to ensure confidentiality and loyalty from my domestic staff
I know how to read a corporate financial statement and analyze my own financial statements
I know how to host the parties that “key” people attend
I have two or three “screens” that keep people whom I do not wish to see away from me
I am on the board of at least two charities